Set along more than 200 feet of waterfront overlooking West Neck Harbor, The Boathouse offers a setting that feels both expansive and intentional. The architecture is clean and open, allowing the natural surroundings to take the lead, while creating a seamless flow from one part of the day to the next. Water and sunset views add a quiet depth, grounding the entire experience.
The ceremony unfolds on its own stretch of land extending into the harbor, surrounded by water on all sides. It’s a moment that feels distinctly set apart, simple yet striking, and complete without the need for excess.
From there, the celebration transitions effortlessly into cocktails and reception. The versatility of the space allows each wedding to take on its own identity, whether understated or more layered, without ever feeling overdesigned.
What sets The Boathouse apart is the way each wedding is given the space to truly be its own. With only one event per weekend and access to the venue in the days leading up, couples and their vendors are able to move at a different pace, one that allows every detail to be considered and every moment to feel fully realized.
The result is a celebration where the couple is cared for with intention, guests feel genuinely welcomed, and the entire experience unfolds exactly as it should.
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The Ceremony On The Water
Set on its own peninsula extending into West Neck Harbor, the ceremony feels completely set apart, surrounded by water, open sky, and nothing to distract from the moment. It’s simple, striking, and doesn’t need to be overworked to feel unforgettable.
The Architecture And The Light
Exposed wood beams stretch across the ceiling, adding warmth and structure, while natural light pours in from every side. Paired with full water views, the space feels open, elevated, and instantly transportive.
Our Team
Suzanne Walsh – Events Director
The Proof Is In The Praise!
Rave reviews from happy couples!
My wedding was just a few weeks ago, and we are still reliving the magic that is The Boathouse! Not only is Shelter Island a premiere place to bring all your wedding guests (destination wedding without all the lengthy travel!) but The Boathouse is a gem of a venue tucked away in a quaint harbor making you feel like you have access to your very own island. We were initially drawn to all the natural elements of the Boathouse. Our guests were blown away by the beauty. Shelter Island was showing off that weekend and the weather was nice enough to hike, swim, tour, golf, and take in all the island has to offer. The ferry is also a fun little additive and is as charming and quick as can be! If you want a special location set in nature where you can authentically mold the venue to your taste, this is the place for you. If you can dream it, the Boathouse can do it!
Erica K
From the moment I walked in, I knew the Boathouse was the perfect venue for us. I couldn’t be happier with our experience. James and Megan were extremely helpful throughout the process, and really showed up the weekend of our wedding. Not only is the venue stunning, but the people behind it are incredible. Highly recommend!
Briana G
Beyond thankful to have booked the Boathouse for our wedding. First off, the location is one of the most picturesque spots I have seen. If you love nature and the water but want the option for an indoor/outdoor wedding, the Boathouse is the perfect option. Second, James and Megan were extremely helpful and ensured the day went smooth. Leading up to the day, Megan was so helpful and responsible. I had a number of logistical questions and Megan really went above and beyond and she always responded to my email in less than 24 hours! She is the down to earth, knowledgeable, and I really felt she went above and beyond to ensure everything went smoothly. Finally, if you want to include your personal flair into your wedding, the Boathouse will make your dreams come true. All of our guests are still talking about how beautiful the space was. There are so many great options for pictures before dinner, including a beautiful sunset. Book your wedding at the Boathouse ASAP!
Brooke T
platinumVENUE
Set along more than 200 feet of waterfront overlooking West Neck Harbor, The Boathouse offers a setting that feels both expansive and intentional. The architecture is clean and open, allowing the natural surroundings to take the lead, while creating a seamless flow from one part of the day to the next. Water and sunset views add a quiet depth, grounding the entire experience.
The ceremony unfolds on its own stretch of land extending into the harbor, surrounded by water on all sides. It’s a moment that feels distinctly set apart, simple yet striking, and complete without the need for excess.
From there, the celebration transitions effortlessly into cocktails and reception. The versatility of the space allows each wedding to take on its own identity, whether understated or more layered, without ever feeling overdesigned.
What sets The Boathouse apart is the way each wedding is given the space to truly be its own. With only one event per weekend and access to the venue in the days leading up, couples and their vendors are able to move at a different pace, one that allows every detail to be considered and every moment to feel fully realized.
The result is a celebration where the couple is cared for with intention, guests feel genuinely welcomed, and the entire experience unfolds exactly as it should.
The Ceremony On The Water
Set on its own peninsula extending into West Neck Harbor, the ceremony feels completely set apart, surrounded by water, open sky, and nothing to distract from the moment. It’s simple, striking, and doesn’t need to be overworked to feel unforgettable.
The Architecture And The Light
Exposed wood beams stretch across the ceiling, adding warmth and structure, while natural light pours in from every side. Paired with full water views, the space feels open, elevated, and instantly transportive.
Our Team
Suzanne Walsh – Events Director
The Proof Is In
The Praise!
Rave reviews from our
happy couples!
My wedding was just a few weeks ago, and we are still reliving the magic that is The Boathouse! Not only is Shelter Island a premiere place to bring all your wedding guests (destination wedding without all the lengthy travel!) but The Boathouse is a gem of a venue tucked away in a quaint harbor making you feel like you have access to your very own island. We were initially drawn to all the natural elements of the Boathouse. Our guests were blown away by the beauty. Shelter Island was showing off that weekend and the weather was nice enough to hike, swim, tour, golf, and take in all the island has to offer. The ferry is also a fun little additive and is as charming and quick as can be! If you want a special location set in nature where you can authentically mold the venue to your taste, this is the place for you. If you can dream it, the Boathouse can do it!
Erica K
From the moment I walked in, I knew the Boathouse was the perfect venue for us. I couldn’t be happier with our experience. James and Megan were extremely helpful throughout the process, and really showed up the weekend of our wedding. Not only is the venue stunning, but the people behind it are incredible. Highly recommend!
Briana G
Beyond thankful to have booked the Boathouse for our wedding. First off, the location is one of the most picturesque spots I have seen. If you love nature and the water but want the option for an indoor/outdoor wedding, the Boathouse is the perfect option. Second, James and Megan were extremely helpful and ensured the day went smooth. Leading up to the day, Megan was so helpful and responsible. I had a number of logistical questions and Megan really went above and beyond and she always responded to my email in less than 24 hours! She is the down to earth, knowledgeable, and I really felt she went above and beyond to ensure everything went smoothly. Finally, if you want to include your personal flair into your wedding, the Boathouse will make your dreams come true. All of our guests are still talking about how beautiful the space was. There are so many great options for pictures before dinner, including a beautiful sunset. Book your wedding at the Boathouse ASAP!
Brooke T
